How much time and Energy would you put in to prevent another relationship from failing?

The last thing you want to do is make a woman feel rejected especially when she's having such a hard time at home, but you need to tell her where she stands with you, for YOUR sake as much as hers.. You must care a great deal about this woman otherwise you wouldn't be this upset, so there's no harm in the too of you going for a Coffee or a beer and you getting this off your chest and letting her know where she stands and you never know she might turn things around with her husband and be your friend for life............... whatever happens GOOD LOOK